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Prisoner in my own home

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The warden: 16 lb. ball of fur.

It turns out that since getting a dog I am far less productive than I was before. The main reason is that every time I go to do something, my 18" shadow appears. My dog Henry has made it his life's ambition to follow me everywhere, and whenever I attempt to do something he's there to try and interject himself.

Examples include gardening (where he decided he'd be helpful and dig a hole... which would have been nice if he didn't kick dirt all over the place), painting miniatures (where he not only tried to nibble on the metal mini, the paint container, and to sit in my lap while I'm trying to work, but also when I moved to the floor in front of the coffee table he decided to sit behind me on the couch and paw my shoulder for attention), and any time I try to use my computer in the "office" at home.

He's adorable but he's got a real problem with needing attention.

If I go outside to mow, he wants to come out and eat the lawn mower. If I try to go to the store he wants to ride along, which would be fine if he also didn't want to DRIVE.

Wish I had time for an obedience training school.

I've considered getting him a little friend, but I'm afraid that all of those hurdles I dodge with Henry I'd have to deal with for the new dog. Henry is house trained, doesn't bark (instead opting to growl at anything he finds objectionable), and does't eat furniture. Also Henry is territorial, so I'm afraid another dog might get pushed around by him, especially if I seem to be paying more attention to it than to him.

He's a great dog and I'm glad I got him. I just wish he could relax and do things without me for a while.

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  1. Tasha's Avatar
    Get this dog under control before you consider getting him a 'friend'. Obedience isn't that hard, it just takes being firm and not being mean. Being consistent about boundaries. All dogs want boundaries, if you don't give them that they will take over. I know he's cute and fuzzy, but if you don't get him trained well now it will be harder later. Cesar Millan's books are a good place to start. He does a great job at explaining how dogs relate to humans (ie he sees you and your family as his pack, if you aren't in charge he will be). The more time you spend training your dog will pay off in the long run.
  2. Thia Halmades's Avatar
    I rarely "me-too" to comments, but Tasha is spot on. Praise him for behaving appropriately, do not reward him for behaving inappropriately. Remain calm, and don't lose your temper. It will take a few days, but the process will be shorter than you think. For example, when you get in the car, he wants to drive. Set him in his seat, and don't move. When he comes into your lap, calmly direct him back to his spot. When he is calm, and settled, start the car. Small example, but that's the kind of thinking Millan forwards. Reward the animal when he's behaving in a way you want him to behave, and he'll fall right in line.

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