Hello,
I thought I'd give this place a visit again, and give a summary of my 2014 year: * Lost a 9-year coworker and friend in Feb. when he attempted to kill his ex-wife and then committed suicide.
* Lost my last uncle (and my mother's last sibling) to natural causes in March.
* Lost a friend (and good GM) to heart attack and resulting brain damage. Alive, but very little is left.
* Lost my mother in May when my father had an episode of dementia and strangled her to death barehanded.
* Lost my father (see above). Alive, but mentally fading, and incarcerated.
* Found out my oldest sister has lymphoma in August
* Found out my middle sister's husband has cancer in August.
* Helped my sisters clean up/out our parent's home.
I can safely say that 2014 is the worst year of my life. I have always been an advocate for "fighting the good fight", but I think I'm beginning to comprehend what can drive a person to do something... rash.
On the upside, I've found that I have a fairly good ability to hold my liquor.
I hope other's fared better.