Re: GMs: PC Scrutiny & Acceptance
As a GM, I run because of the following reasons:
I like to game
No one else will run half the time
I enjoy running games
My players usually get great enjoyment from the story
Being a GM is not a job because I don't get paid. That said, if I don't enjoy the game myself, the game isn't going to happen. So players need to respect my wishes for how I would like to run the game while at the same time I need to reflect their wishes.
Munchkining does not make the GM's game fun.
Number Fudging does not make the GM's game fun.
Lying about dice rolls does not make the GM's game fun.
I trust my players. I look at there sheet and give them benefit of the doubt. If there is something I don't like or don't think is appropriate I get them to either to remove it or justify why they have it.
I also set the following rule:
The players set the boundries and limits to the game. I avoid sexual content in my games. Unless it is clear the players don't mind. I had a D&D game where a player decided to find someone for a one night stand. I rolled a 1 and gave him someone with a STD which the Cleric quickly removed. I never would have brought up the subject of STD's in a campaign if not for a player bringing up the concept of one-night stands.
My games default to PG-13. A gun shot kills a person. I don't say, "The gun goes off ripping through the man's chest leaving a gaping hole." Unless, they want that sort of detail.