I keep hearing “Baby it’s cold outside” called a rape song. That’s crap. Check out one of the classic versions, like Ray Charles & Betty Carter. **I make no defense about versions that f¥@k with the lyrics.**
Yes the guy is trying to convince the girl to stay...so what? No one is being FORCED to do ANYTHING!! While the #Me Too# movement and Cancel Culture have done good and great things shining light on dark places and forcing men of power to be responsible for their actions, not every human interaction is automatically evil. Not every entreaty to stay a while is the same as slipping some girl a roofie.
If you don’t like the song, fine. I myself think it’s kind of trite and outdated. But there have been a number of versions where the gender roles have been flipped and Glee did a version sung by two Gay males. Who’s the injured party there?
A dangerous side effect of these movements is the infantilization and disempowerment of Women. The idea that a woman can’t just say “No thanks, I’m going home now.” unless there’s a crowd or even worse some men to pass a law or rule about it.
It’s just a dumb song. Not a blacked out van and a locked basement.